My husband and I wanted different things and were not able to achieve those things together. to our family room after settling the kids in bed and said to my husband, Have a minute? I could accept that and stay, or reject it and leave. Hello, I'm new but I had an arguement with my husband last night and wanted some input. But afterwards he gets up and makes a bee line for the living room so he can watch tv. So I got up and asked him if he would please come back for a minute and he said he would after he did xyz.